I have lost
count of the number of posts that I have written which concern solicitors who have
seen their careers brought to an end through misguided efforts to cover up a
mistake. Today’s case is unusual because it involves an experienced solicitor who
might have been expected to know better. Michael Maoileoin had simply recorded
the wrong date for a court hearing. He had diarised the 14th and not
the 4th August. Who hasn’t done that? Rather than admit what had happened
he filed a statement with the court asserting that a document had been filed in
error. The truth eventually came out – it always does. The unfortunate Mr Maoileoin
has been struck off at just 50.
His
explanation to the Solicitors’ Disciplinary Tribunal was that he had been under
stress at the time. The SRA told the Tribunal that stress and pressure were occupational
hazards.
Harsh as it
sounds, that must be right. Lying to the court is only ever going to end badly.
I have said this over and over again – an early acknowledgment of a mistake can
save a lot of worry and in some cases can save a career. It is so sad that a professional
person can get into such a state that rational thinking goes out of the window.
So how do we
manage the pressure?
Here are
five tips from a blog that I posted a long time ago on how to practice law and
sleep at night.
It is not a comprehensive list but might be helpful –
1.
In the famous
words of Michael Jackson - You are not alone. Find someone that you can talk to
– it is so easy to be isolated in your little cell. Surrounded by files,
emails, deadlines, telephone messages, meetings. To get into that mindset that
says ‘I have no time to speak to anyone’. You have. And if you haven’t then
make it. 20 mins speaking to someone will get you hours of payback in avoiding
sleepless nights. It is a truth universally acknowledged that a problem is
never anywhere near as bad when you talk to someone about it. Especially
someone who has been there, which if we are honest is all of us! Speak to
someone. Right away. Turn your computer off and go and do it now.
2.
Be generous in
giving files away. That file that you are scared to look at. The one that has
been festering by the side of your desk so long that even the spiders won’t go
near it. Give it to someone. It won’t go away on its own. If you can’t look at
it, find someone who can. Many solicitors have a file swapping arrangement. I’ll
give you mine; you give me yours. Don’t hog matters to protect your bills. You
can be far more productive by liberating yourself. Don’t be scared of being
criticised. You won’t be. You are more likely to be told – ‘Leave it with me
and while you’re there can you look at this one of mine.’
3.
See the wood for
the trees. It is never as bad as you think it is at 3.00am. The world will not
end. I’ve been a lawyer since 1st April 1980. I have had more 3.00am
moments than I like to admit – especially in the early days. Guess what? I’m
still here. I’m still alive. I have got to an age where I can say. ‘Phew
oblivion never happened.’ It was never going to and never will.
4.
If you need to –
confess. If you think the worst has happened – you've missed a deadline and can’t
think of a way out. Then tell someone. Today’s is just the next in line of
those nightmare cases where lawyers have tried to cover up and been struck off because
they were scared to own up. No one was ever struck off for admitting a mistake.
Partners, supervisors, insurers will never bite your head off for coming clean.
And if they do they shouldn’t be in the job. It also means that it is no longer
just your problem. Get it out there and do it as soon as possible. The
consequences are less scary than you think and much less stressful than waking
up at night or even jeopardising your hard earned career.
5.
Get a life. Don’t
get sucked into that bubble where your legal world becomes all consuming. Being
a lawyer is what you do. It is not who you are. See your work as part of your
life but not everything. Develop interests and friends outside the pressure
cooker. I support Everton. That can very stressful and cause sleepless nights.
But it is something different. I love music and photography. I also waste far
too much time on social media!
Don’t ever be silent or isolated. Speak to me if you have no-one else!